I was thinking about power dynamics today. No surprise, but I’ve been fortunate enough to be developing a new dynamic lately, so it’s especially on my mind.
I was thinking about how intensely erotic and fulfilling it feels to claim ownership of someone, and to be owned.
At …
Continuing on a theme: my last note was about my own challenges around orgasm. There's a lot to explore there.
But today, something else: I love doing orgasm control with my partners.
The highlights are those times I can see it's more important to them to be under my control …
...But that doesn't mean I don't love everything you're doing. 😊
I don't know how common this is for people with penises vs. people with vaginas, but I just don't climax from sexual contact. Never have. Did I "ruin" myself by masturbating too much in my youth? Is it all an …
While rebuilding my site, I chose to unpublish a handful of blog posts. Most of what I publish here is smut—short or long kinky erotic fiction. Once in a while I’ve written a post that was about me, and more substantive than “I’m horny and want to …
I just wanted to let you know
My mind refuses to let you go
I want to hypnotize you so
You will remember me
– Muse, Easily
I have this type of relationship in the last few years that I haven't had in my life before: kink playmates. It's a bit …
I have been spending a lot of time on my hypnokink in the last few months.
I’ve been very fortunate to have no fewer than 3 frequent playmates in that time, and we talk a lot. Plus, I joined Twitter, and it’s a fun way to interact with …
Sometimes I wonder if I could be a good “top”.
See, I’m switchy. That doesn’t even really cover it, actually: “switchy” kind of suggests I might like switching sometimes. No. I need to be submissive. And I also need to be dominant. Yeah, I have a given mood …
Life calls upon you to make choices.
If you choose the same thing over and over, it becomes a habit. If it’s a habit that makes your life worse instead of better, it’s called a “disorder” or an “addiction”. I’m sure that’s an oversimplification, but I …